Don't settle for anything less than what GOD can give you!

I recently read an article titled: "The One Feeling That Makes a Man Fall - And Stay - In Love" by Christian Carter.  While I agree with the part where it says that if a man expresses that he needs space or a break, I can't agree with the rest of what the article aims to "sell", though.  Yes, a woman should give a man just that--SPACE--if he asks for it.  Now, pay attention to what I disagree with in the article...  It sort of implies that a woman needs to continually do new things and make the relationship unpredictable in order to keep that man physically and emotionally attracted and connected to you.  What a bunch of crap!!!  Ladies, if you stumble across a man with these "needs" in his life, my suggestion is that you R U N as fast as you can! 

"If you love something, let it go.  If it comes back to you, it's yours forever.  If it doesn't, then it was never meant to be."

Unfortunately, there is no saving things once a man decides he's done.  By the time he reaches that lightbulb moment that you aren't his physical/emotional equal, he's usually got another girl feeding his ego and reeling him in.  It wouldn't matter if you hang-glide into his front yard followed by a 10-piece brass marching band.  Once he's checked out, there's no getting him back.  Anything you do will appear to be desperate and needy!  Every woman should know when to try harder and when to walk away.  If someone wants to be a part of your life, they'll be there.  So don't bother saving a spot for someone who won't make an effort to stay.  

I'd rather have some stability and security in my man, instead of one who requires motor scootering over Italy in order to get his attention again.  If he grows bored during the dating phase, how in the world will you keep his interest in marriage?!  


If you walked away from someone and he DIDN'T chase after you, rest assured, you made the right decision.  I've had to learn, the hard way, that God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. You can't run after them.  True l o v e comes N A T U R A L L Y--there's nothing to force, nothing to chase.  It finds YOU!  


After reading this article, it made me realize how greatly I need to further push myself to strive only for what GOD has in store for me.  I refuse to settle for anything less than "la crème de la crème"!  I want a God-fearing man who does not require any of that superficial stuff--which isn't love, by the way.

Don't worry if you're single.  If you haven't met your future spouse, it's because God is still working in them.  Be worthy of the work!  When love is ready to find you, it will.  God is looking at you right now saying, “I'm saving this girl for someone special.”  In the meantime, get down to the business of finding yourself by seeking GOD wholeheartedly and developing a deep and meaningful relationship with HIM.  

LORD, please, bless me with an amazing Godly man--one after Your own heart.  Send me the husband You are especially preparing for me!   I can't wait to meet him... ♥